Bil's sister is the Power of Attorney and executor of the estate and only she could release the domain to me. I am so sorry for her at this time, because she is badly injured with a broken tail bone and some other bones bashed, due to a terrible fall. Yet, she gathered all the documents asked for and sent them to dreamhost with instructions to release the domain to me. That is not enough, apparently, and they want her to write to them again. I have contacted her and asked her to do so, but also feel quite terrible knowing the pain she suffers to even move a little.
So, after three weeks now, I have also gained thefatewe.ca and the site is up and running on that mode for now, but there is nothing that points to it yet, at least not until I contact all sites where thefatewe.com is found and add the .ca address. What a nightmare this has become and Bil would be horrified at our poor progress, because he was so excellent with things in this matter. Sorry for our ineptness, dear friends, but we are trying and hope to have everything up and moving real soon. Thank y